The Sanctuary of Truth | Pattaya, Thailand

The Sanctuary of Truth in Pattaya, Thailand, stands as an awe-inspiring testament to traditional craftsmanship and philosophical depth. Constructed entirely of wood, this massive structure soars to a height of 105 meters, embodying a fusion of art, culture, and faith. The sanctuary, a brainchild of Thai businessman Lek Viriyaphant, is a unique architectural feat, showcasing intricate carvings that depict stories and teachings from Buddhism and Hinduism. It’s more than just a building; it's a reflection of the complex interplay of Eastern spiritual beliefs, portrayed through stunning sculptures and design elements that capture centuries of religious art and mythology.

This majestic structure is not just a place of worship, but a monumental artwork that transcends conventional religious boundaries. Each carving, each pillar tells a story, weaving a tapestry of moral and philosophical teachings. The Sanctuary of Truth is a reminder of the universal truths that underpin different faiths, emphasizing the commonalities in the quest for meaning and enlightenment. Its location by the sea adds to its mystical allure, with the ocean's vastness complementing the grandeur of this architectural marvel.

However, despite its grandiosity and deep symbolism, the Sanctuary of Truth can be a conundrum for visitors. It's not a temple in the traditional sense, nor is it an ancient site imbued with historical legacies. This recent construction, an amalgamation of various religious beliefs, might puzzle those seeking a pure, singular religious experience. But it’s worth acknowledging the vision and ambition behind its creation. It's commendable how Lek Viriyaphant utilized his resources, not just for personal gain, but to create something that sparks deep thought and appreciation for the diversity of spiritual narratives. While it may not fit neatly into conventional categories, the Sanctuary of Truth stands as a testament to human creativity and the pursuit of philosophical and artistic excellence.

*I had to wear those brown pants because my gym shorts were “too short” despite acknowledging the fact this was indeed, not a temple.

#2: Embracing the 'I': My Journey from Skeptic to Advocate of First-Person Narratives

Let's get this out there: I once had a bias against first-person novels. Why on earth would I want to read a whole book stuck in someone else's head, listening to their incessant 'I did this, I felt that'? It's as if the literary world forgot there are other ways to tell a story. They certainly don’t do this in movies. They hardly ever strap a camera onto the protagonist's face for two straight hours — except for that one time with 'Hardcore Henry,' but that's a whole other can of worms. So why should I, a self-respecting reader, subject myself to this narrative tyranny? Every time I picked up a book and saw that solitary 'I' staring back at me, it was an instant no-go.

For years, this bias influenced my choices. A quick glance at a book; if I spotted an unquoted "I," back on the shelf it went, where it belonged. But in 2019, Haruki Murakami’s "South of the Border, West of the Sun" transformed my perspective. As I delved into Hajime's world, I realized that the power of first-person narrative lies in its mimicry of real-life storytelling. Suddenly, the 'I' in the novels felt like a friend sharing their story, and my aversion turned into appreciation.

This newfound appreciation, however, now presents me with a creative challenge. My previous novels, "Contraception" and "A Viral State," were written in third person. How do I, as a writer, distinguish my own voice from a first-person narrator? I ponder Melvin Burgess’s approach in "Junk," with its jarring shift of narrators, each chapter told from a different character’s perspective. Should I maintain a single, consistent voice, or should I juggle multiple perspectives? It’s a conundrum I’m still unraveling.

Reflecting on this shift in perspective, I've come to appreciate the unique intimacy first-person narratives offer. Unlike the detached observation of third-person, first-person writing invites readers into the inner world of the character. It's a space where thoughts and feelings are not merely observed, but lived. This intimacy creates a bond between the reader and the narrator, one that's akin to a personal conversation. It's a journey into someone else's psyche, where every joy and sorrow is felt firsthand. This realization has not only expanded my reading repertoire but also opened new avenues in my own writing. It challenges me to step into the shoes of my characters, to see the world through their eyes, and most importantly, to convey their stories with authenticity and depth.

There's a deeper reason why first-person narratives can be so captivating. Psychological studies suggest that when we read in the first person, our brains often process the experiences as if they were our own. This phenomenon, known as 'experience-taking,' can be incredibly powerful. When we read "I felt heartbroken," or "I rejoiced," we may not just understand these emotions; we may feel them. This vicarious experience can forge a deep, empathetic connection between the reader and the character. It's akin to walking a mile in someone else's shoes, but through the pages of a book. This aspect of first-person narrative doesn’t just tell a story; it invites us to live it, breathe it, and feel it. In embracing this style, I’ve come to realize the immense potential it holds for creating empathy and understanding, something the world sorely needs. Such narratives aren't just stories; they're bridges connecting us to diverse experiences and perspectives, helping us to understand others and ourselves on a much deeper level.

Think my take on first-person narratives is dumb? Wait till you hear this. As a kid, I was baffled by money. Watching my mom hand over $10 to a cashier and get back only $2 and an item seemed like a raw deal. My young mind couldn't grasp the concept of 'value' or 'cost.' I constantly thought we were getting ripped off. Compared to that, my views on narrative styles might not seem so outlandish now, eh?

For those who share my former skepticism towards first-person narratives, I would recommend this: imagine the narrator as someone recounting their tale over a drink. You’re just along for the ride, experiencing their world through their eyes. It's a perspective shift that might just change your reading experience. For me, embracing first-person narratives has been like learning a new language; initially foreign, now fluent, turning my 'I don't get it' into an 'I see it now,' one story at a time.

Donating Clothes

In the last weeks of 2023 and the beginning of 2024, I set a simple goal: gather 50kg of clothes for charity. Little did I know, this journey would turn into an avalanche of generosity, leading to a mountain of over 80kg of clothes, shoes, belts, purses, and more, thanks to the incredible support of friends and the local community.

I placed a donation box in my gym, which became a small beacon of communal goodwill. The response was overwhelming, and the box quickly filled.

The next hurdle was finding the right charity. My criteria were specific: no religious affiliations, just a direct, human-to-human connection. That's when I stumbled upon Eiamdee Recycle. This morning, as the founder himself picked up the donations, he shared his plan to collaborate with a local laundromat. Every piece we collected will be washed, sorted, and then find a new home in orphanages, schools, and with those in dire need.

This experience was a reminder of the power of community and the impact of collective action. I set out to gather 50kg of clothes, but ended up with something much heavier: a profound sense of connection and the undeniable proof that when we come together, we can create waves of positive change.

For those inspired to join this wave, reach out at +66 093 132 9168 or visit Eiamdee’s Facebook page: เอี่ยมดี.

#1: Navigating Futures – The Retirement Puzzle and the Paradox of Prosperity

I live in Thailand, and will likely retire here, hence the “Thai” money theme

Lately, at the age of 34, retirement has been on my mind more than ever. It's a distant milestone, but one that resonates strongly with my generation. We're known for hopping between jobs and often don't have the cushion of traditional pensions. As an expat, I'm faced with unique challenges, like being unable to contribute to a 401K. Planning for retirement, therefore, becomes a complex puzzle, peppered with uncertainties about lifespan, financial needs, and the ever-changing global economy.

A recent Twitter discussion brought to light a crucial comparison: the potential financial benefits of investing in the stock market throughout one’s working life versus relying solely on Social Security. The stark contrast was eye-opening. Those who invested independently seemed to be in a better financial position. This throws a spotlight on the reliability of Social Security, a system with no contractual obligation, often deemed an unstable safety net. Even economists like Milton Friedman have critiqued it as The Biggest Ponzi Scheme on Earth.

For me, retirement planning means making a singular, irreversible decision. I'm set on avoiding a return to work post-retirement. Therefore, generating passive income is key in my strategy. Property investment is my current focus. I own a condo in Chiang Mai and am planning another purchase in 2025, contingent on how my savings stack up in 2024. Despite its risks, real estate offers a tangible path towards financial security for someone without royalties or product sales.

It's intriguing how we perceive money. Way back when, trading was pretty much like a swap meet. You have a wheel of cheese, your neighbor has a chicken, and you'd strike a deal – no middleman, no fuss. But then, enter the big game changer: money. Imagine the look on someone's face when they're told, 'Hey, forget the cheese. How about this shiny coin with the king's mug on it?' It must have been a real head-scratcher. We went from bartering with stuff you can eat or use, to trading pieces of metal and paper that are, frankly, useless in a desert island scenario. It’s like someone waved a magic wand and said, 'This piece of paper? Yeah, it's now worth 10 chickens or a small goat.' It's kind of bizarre when you think about it – the whole concept of money relies on us all buying into this big idea that these coins and notes mean something. It’s like the ultimate trust fall exercise, but with the economy.

While the prospect of achieving what's often referred to as "Fuck you money" — the level of wealth that allows absolute financial freedom and power — might be out of my reach, my goal is more about comfort than command. This desire for comfort, I believe, resonates with many. 'Comfortable' is a subjective term, and its definition varies widely. For me, it means living without financial worry. I envision a life where I can freely choose what I want from a restaurant menu without a second glance at the prices, where I can generously give gifts to my loved ones during Christmas, and where an unexpected medical emergency won't threaten my financial stability. What that means in terms of annual salary, for me, would be around $100,000, which would also allow me to save a significant amount.

That being said, I'm embracing the art of spending money judiciously while also honing my saving skills. My spending is directed towards things that add genuine value and joy to my life – be it travel, the latest tech, or cherished signed jerseys. This approach stems from a fundamental belief: what is the point of all our hard work if we don’t allow ourselves to enjoy its rewards? Life, after all, is about finding that delicate balance between diligent saving and rewarding oneself for the efforts put in.

Navigating the financial aspects of life, especially planning for retirement, is a journey of balancing aspirations with practicalities. But again, easier said than done.

2023 New Year’s Eve

New Year's Eve in Chiang Mai was an eclectic mix of tradition and mild chaos, where even the anarchists couldn't resist scaling Tha Phae Gate. The city buzzed with energy, teeming with people, pulsating live performances, and an endless playlist of music. We clinked drinks under a canopy of lanterns, which painted the sky in hues of hope and adventure, although a few rebellious ones chose the embrace of trees, much to the audience's dismay.

For my personal 2023 escapades, I embraced the art of brevity through daily haikus. You can sneak a peek at these mini-literary escapades here.

I read 5 books, though not my best effort. Condo renovations took up a lot of my time in 2023, so I’ll work on upping that number for 2024.

1. Hard-Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World — Haruki Murakami

2. Never Split The Difference — Chris Voss

3. Fugitive Pieces — Anne Michaels

4. Atomic Habits — James Clear

5. The Godfather of Kathmandu — John Burdett

As we embark on this new orbit around the sun, I extend a heartfelt wish for a splendid 2024 to all. Here we are, standing at the threshold of a fresh chapter, ready to fill its pages with new adventures, lessons, and laughter. Let's dive into this year with the enthusiasm of explorers and the wisdom of sages. Happy New Year, and here's to a journey worth sharing every Sunday! 🌟🗓️🎉

2024 Goals

2024 Outlook:
I don't have major plans for 2024. My focus will be on simpler, more grounded goals, avoiding substantial changes or large-scale expenditures. Notably, I don't intend to purchase additional property, embark on significant travels outside of Asia, or undergo other major life alterations. However, I do anticipate seeking a new job, a prospect that doesn't excite me, but I recognize as a part of life's unpredictability.

Financial Reflections:
Lately, my thoughts have been centered on financial matters — strategies for earning, optimizing, and understanding the essence of "good" income. In Chiang Mai, where I reside, discussions about wealth are uncommon, and ostentatious displays of affluence are rare. Yet, questions about financial security, such as adequate savings for retirement and ways to increase my income, frequently occupy my mind. While I earn enough for a comfortable life in Thailand, I'm conscious of not getting overly fixated on finances, as this has previously added unnecessary stress. In 2023, such concerns were a source of tension, and I aim to be more mindful of my attitude towards money in the coming year.

Recent Purchase:
I upgraded my laptop in mid-December, buying a new 14” MacBook Pro (M3) to replace my slowing 2020 13” MacBook Pro (M1). With the trade-in, the total cost was around $1,500. As a professional reliant on my computer, especially while traveling, this purchase represents an investment in my future.

Finances:

• Save $50,000

• Buy and frame two signed jerseys in Chiang Mai

• Invest $6,000 into my Roth IRA

Travels:

• Visit Brunei

• Travel to another destination in Asia/Oceania

• Explore various locations in Thailand: Koh Kood, Koh Mak, and Surin

• Oceania cruise (if the price is right)

Shopping:

• Buy new gym shorts (preferably from LuLuLemon)

• Avoid fast-fashion retailers

Life:

• Renew my visa in August

• Potentially change jobs

• Read at least one book per month

• Venture outdoors every Sunday, exploring new cafes/lunch spots

• Publish a weekly blog post and share updates on Twitter every Sunday

• Organize a clothing donation drive, aiming to collect and donate 50kg of clothes

• Complete Google Project Management Certificate

• Expand LinkedIn connections to over 500 (current count: 449)

• Update my professional photo on LinkedIn

• Attend at least one networking and one entertainment event in Bangkok

• Get a new website logo from 99 Designs

New Directions: Revamping My Blog for a More Focused 2024 Adventure

Dear Readers,

I'm thrilled to share some big changes coming to my blog as we step into 2024. Your support and engagement have been the cornerstone of this journey, and it's time to shake things up a bit to enhance our shared experience.

First, I’ll be moving all Thailand posts from 2023 into the Thailand country blog. Alongside that, I’ll move country-specific travel posts to their respective blogs as well — for 2023, namely Maldives and Sri Lanka.

I'm excited to announce the launch of a fresh blog exclusively for 2024. This space will be a canvas for all my new adventures, thoughts, and experiences throughout the year. Expect vivid stories, deeper insights, and perhaps a few surprises along the way. To provide a consistent rhythm to our journey, I plan to post every Sunday for the rest of the year. This regular schedule not only helps me stay disciplined in sharing my adventures with you but also ensures you have something to look forward to each week.

In an effort to increase readership, I’ll also be posting each blog on my Twitter (which I rarely use) but I figured 2024 was as good a year as any to increase my social presence.

Depth matters in storytelling, and with that in mind, I'll aim for at least 500 words in each post. Whether it's detailing my week, covering my travels, or delving into topics that have caught my fancy, these longer posts are meant to provide a richer, more immersive experience.

Expect a mix of content — some posts will be travelogues from my 2024 adventures, while others might be reflective pieces or discussions on topics that have sparked my interest. The goal is to keep my content diverse and engaging.

Thank you for being a part of this journey. Your continued readership and feedback are what make this blog a treasure trove of shared experiences. Here's to a year of new stories, discoveries, and connections!

Warm regards,

Degen